Agree all around, except I haven't used the Lincoln Way app (I'm not sure it's available for the Standard, and even if it is, I doubt it has anything that I'll feel I need ...)
Others have reported similar.  Probably the gigantic sunroof fitting needs adjustment.  There appear to have been mixed results in getting this fixed by dealerships.
All of these are most certainly things that the dealership should be investigating and getting fixed.  I don't have any of these issues with my Standard.
Is this perhaps adjustable in the vehicle settings? (I don't recall, but it seems likely).  Mine most certainly switches automatically.
Mine is slow for screen input after a cold start (slow computer boot up, for sure), but once it's fully "up" the response time is fine.  Gear selection has never seemed slow to me, but I'm also not doing any stunt driving in the Corsair, where I might need to switch the transmission in a beat ...
Others have expressed the same.  I wonder if having it always default to "on" permits them a certain EPA classification, or something like that.
Definitely would be nice
moot, without the moonroof, though ...
All would be nice
was originally available;  mine has, as do most but the latest 2020 instances.
Should be on the way
Right.  You might need to lean a bit on the dealership.