Brian,
I really appreciate how generously you've shared your time and expertise on this issue. It sounded like you may have decided to make this post, at least in part, in response to the problems I was having that you addressed in another thread.
Thanks to your help I was able to get it fixed and at a significant savings.
However, after doing so myself, I'm not so sure this information is complete or it might not lead to the most affordable fix for other DIYers.
It does indeed seem like the product number for the DDM of my year/model town car (03 Cartier Edition) directly through Ford would be 41WZ-15K602-AA
However, when we first talked about this the other week, it was something like 460 dollars on discount from over 600 for the part? New, and programmed, I am sure, with all those wonderful "features."
Today, it says that same part has been discontinued, without looking into it further for a possible replacement.
In any case, good thing I already found one that works.
My first attempt to find a working DDM was with an 04 Ultimate Town Car that was in the salvage yard. The sticker had the (I assume, product/model) number 4W1T-13C791-AA on it. I've included a picture with it on there.
***This following long section is what happens when you use the wrong DDM - skip it by going just past the other heading with asterisks***
Despite being of the similar model year range and seemingly having all the same features - that I could remember - it didn't work. I am pretty sure the only thing that I forgot to check where it was the same before extracting the part was the (driver and front passenger) heated seats and I believe those come standard on the 04 Ultimate, from what I could find. Only today did I learn that they might also have heated rear seats come standard, whereas my 03 Cartier does not have heated rear seats. If the 03-05 DDMs really are that interchangeable, I wonder if that could have made such a difference.
At least with the new, partially-functional DDM, I was able to control my seat and thus not have to use a booster seat of sorts (a thick cushion from a sectional couch) to sit forward far enough to safely reach the pedals and steering wheel, albeit still uncomfortably and looking quite ridiculous as well as being less capable of controlling my vehicle as I normally might. I was also able to regain control of my sideview mirrors.
At first, it seemed as though the door locks worked, once? It seemed like after programming the key fobs that had failed many months ago (that I had gotten used to), they briefly worked except for not being able to control the power trunk. After getting in and driving for the first time, the locks all triggered immediately - a feature I've noticed on other cars, but that mine didn't do.
I think the keyless entry pad also worked once or twice to unlock and lock the vehicle.
However, later, after the power locks stopped working, I manually unlocked the rear door from the inside and went to grab something through it from the outside, at which point the alarm was set off.
After turning the key in the driver door as if to unlock the car, it stopped happening, but I would still make sure I did that first if I might have done anything besides manually lock or unlock any of the doors to open other doors.
It worked as a band-aid, but not a long-term fix.
I suppose I could have learned how to use Forscan and to get the right adapter. I originally wrote it off because I thought Forscan required one of those fancy new, heavy duty touchpad scanners that cost thousands, but I guess there are OBD2 to USB adapters that would allow you the full power of Forscan for something like $25 or $30 dollars - without looking into it that much - and possibly allow me to flash a similar, but differently programmed part? I like learning new things on occasion, but there are diminishing returns.
I also suppose the salvaged DDM could have been bad as well. Based on the wear and tear of the salvage vehicle, it had many, many miles more than mine. I can't disprove that another 4W1T-13C791-AA or similar numbered part wouldn't work perfectly for my car from the one failure.
*** End wrong DDM experience ***
Before I went to the closest salvage yard with a relatively similar year/model, I had been looking online for DDMs, and after that failed, I decided to pay more for an identically numbered part - still much cheaper than a new one.
But, I decided that for under $100, I'd give a used and tested DDM a try.
The original part number on the sticker, shown as attached, was 3W1T-13C791-AF
When I first searched for a replacement, I saw plenty of AE and didn't notice the AF, and somehow just assumed that the bottom part of the E rubbed off or faded or something. Now I am pretty sure AE and AF are different somehow.
There are all sorts of part numbers for these, such as the 4W1T-13C791-AA above, there are several "suffixes" so to speak such as -AA, -AB, -AH, -AE, -AF, but not all combinations for each year, if the 3 or 4 is related to the model year or a version of the DDM itself. I thought maybe the first number (3 in 3W1T) had to do with the model year and/or or when it was manufactured, but it could have been coincidence based on my limited searches.
Being a panther platform vehicle, and, as I understand it, the Town Car being basically being an upgraded Crown Vic/Grand Marquis, the DDMs in those other vehicles are quite similar and some also have -13C791- in the middle, with some of those popping up as suggestions, although they sometimes have different prefixes and suffixes like 4W7T- and -BB and model years around 2006 or so appear to have different shapes (if not connectors as well) and (sometimes?) the middle 6 digits are different.
Anyway, I've attached what my original DDM sticker looked like, and the new (used) one also is 3W1T-13C791-AF. The seller wrote "03TC" on it, plus the new keyless entry code directly on the sticker worked right away, as did all the button combinations to control the locks and trunk.
I was able to program my key fobs again, which I thought had gone bad - when they were actually the very first symptoms of the failing DDM over a year ago (very glad I didn't buy new ones after all) - as well as control everything I could think of that involved the DDM and, without driving it for a while to be sure first, it appears that the identical part number works in all ways I had hoped, whereas the similar, albeit mismatched one, only provided slightly more functionality.
All that to say, making sure I got another 3W1T-13C791-AF seemed to do the trick and would be my suggested course of action for anyone else looking to swap their failing/failed DDM out for a different one, rather than hoping the features (and therefore programming) are identical enough.
Thanks again for all your help!