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[Lookin4aLinc]

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the thread is mine! the thread is mine! at last the thread is finally mine! shoo! get out! get out! THE THREAD IS MINE! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

 

[danistanggt]

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[quote name=\'VickiM74\']:lol: I should have Eddie add that and name it :dani: Although, it would be better if it was DP and not coffee![/QUOTE]




:rofl: :fawk::cheers:

 

[daboss351]

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[quote name=\'Jon90LSC\']How\'s that working out for you?[/QUOTE]

pretty shitty
pretty much drove myself out to the middle of no were and balled my eyes out for awhile
yea laugh if you want, yea theres more girls out there. But its hard when you feel betrayed by the 2 closest people to me.

 

[Jon90LSC]

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[quote name=\'daboss351\']pretty shitty
pretty much drove myself out to the middle of no were and balled my eyes out for awhile
yea laugh if you want, yea theres more girls out there. But its hard when you feel betrayed by the 2 closest people to me.[/QUOTE]
No laughing here. It sucks. If they treated you like that, then maybe they weren\'t such good friends. The truth is that you are young, and you will meet scores of other people along your life\'s journey. Some will stay close to you, others won\'t. I wouldn\'t lose sleep over these two.

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[hypostang]

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That does suck Mason
but Jon is 100% correct

 

[Potato]

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[quote name=\'daboss351\']pretty shitty
pretty much drove myself out to the middle of no were and balled my eyes out for awhile
yea laugh if you want, yea theres more girls out there. But its hard when you feel betrayed by the 2 closest people to me.[/QUOTE]


It may take you a while to catch your stride. For now don\'t let it get to you that much though

 

[daboss351]

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[quote name=\'Jon90LSC\']No laughing here. It sucks. If they treated you like that, then maybe they weren\'t such good friends. The truth is that you are young, and you will meet scores of other people along your life\'s journey. Some will stay close to you, others won\'t. I wouldn\'t lose sleep over these two.[/QUOTE]

it just sucks because ive always been like attracted to the crummy girls, then I found her. No one I know for a girl is as into, and knows as much as cars as her. She loves fords, big trucks, getting dirty, fourwheeling, plus shes friggen GOURGOUES.
The guy, this isnt the first time hes pulled this shit on me, and hes like one of my closest guy friends(although theres only one guy friend I can trust to keep his mouth shut). They didnt wanna tell me cause they didnt wanna hurt me but its a little late for that. The last girl he did this to me with I liked for mad long but lost touch with her, and he hooked up with her, no feelings involved just hooked up with her. I dont know what it is, but this kid can minupulate anyone he wants. Hes \"talking\" to this one girl, hes been trying to hook up with this other one(hes kissed both), and now hes trying with this one...
I dont know what to do... Her last real long relationship ended in her being emotionaly screwed up. The kid stalked her and harrassed her to the point that she had to get a restraining order on the kid. I dont wanna she her get hurt by my buddy, but I feel like if I tell her everything about him they are gonna think im doing it out of jelousy and im gonna lose them both...
I hate friggen drama shit. I mean you cant help who you like, but what makes him so much better then me? other then he is cocky and full of himself, and i have no confidence and no self essteem and this shit is why. No one has any respect for my feelings.

O and the girl that I talked about before, the one in my prom pic, she not interested in me she just told me shes been talking to someone from her work, but didnt wanna tell me.

I hoped maybe finally having a car would make things better. HA
now it just gives girls another thing to use me for

 

[hypostang]

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[quote name=\'daboss351\']it just sucks because ive always been like attracted to the crummy girls, then I found her. No one I know for a girl is as into, and knows as much as cars as her. She loves fords, big trucks, getting dirty, fourwheeling, plus shes friggen GOURGOUES.
The guy, this isnt the first time hes pulled this shit on me, and hes like one of my closest guy friends(although theres only one guy friend I can trust to keep his mouth shut). They didnt wanna tell me cause they didnt wanna hurt me but its a little late for that. The last girl he did this to me with I liked for mad long but lost touch with her, and he hooked up with her, no feelings involved just hooked up with her. I dont know what it is, but this kid can minupulate anyone he wants. Hes \"talking\" to this one girl, hes been trying to hook up with this other one(hes kissed both), and now hes trying with this one...
I dont know what to do... Her last real long relationship ended in her being emotionaly screwed up. The kid stalked her and harrassed her to the point that she had to get a restraining order on the kid. I dont wanna she her get hurt by my buddy, but I feel like if I tell her everything about him they are gonna think im doing it out of jelousy and im gonna lose them both...
I hate friggen drama shit. I mean you cant help who you like, but what makes him so much better then me? other then he is cocky and full of himself, and i have no confidence and no self essteem and this shit is why. No one has any respect for my feelings.

O and the girl that I talked about before, the one in my prom pic, she not interested in me she just told me shes been talking to someone from her work, but didnt wanna tell me.

I hoped maybe finally having a car would make things better. HA
now it just gives girls another thing to use me for[/QUOTE]

Your car with never mess with your emotions

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[daboss351]

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and thats why I spend all my money on my baby!
the new 90
and my 66

 

[Jon90LSC]

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Seriously, you need to relax a bit. I understand things don\'t sometimes go at the pace you want it to, but what\'s the hurry? It seems like you meet a girl one day, and the next day you want some sort of serious relationship. Youth is wasted on the young; enjoy it while you can. Jobs, mortgages, marriage, kids, that shit can all wait. When I was your age, I worked all the time. Looking back, I really had no reason to. I wished I had stopped to enjoy a few things. I\'m not meaning to sound like your dad, and I know you generally don\'t heed advice well, but stop and listen for just a minute. What is the hurry with stuff? If you are just looking to get a piece of ass, get one. If not, stop looking for love with very girl and take time to enjoy stuff going on around you. Besides, there is nothing flakier or more fickle than a teenage girl.

 

[hypostang]

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[quote name=\'jon90lsc\'] besides, there is nothing flakier or more fickle than a teenage girl.[/quote]

amen !!!!!!!!

 

[daboss351]

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[quote name=\'Jon90LSC\']Seriously, you need to relax a bit. I understand things don\'t sometimes go at the pace you want it to, but what\'s the hurry? It seems like you meet a girl one day, and the next day you want some sort of serious relationship. Youth is wasted on the young; enjoy it while you can. Jobs, mortgages, marriage, kids, that shit can all wait. When I was your age, I worked all the time. Looking back, I really had no reason to. I wished I had stopped to enjoy a few things. I\'m not meaning to sound like your dad, and I know you generally don\'t heed advice well, but stop and listen for just a minute. What is the hurry with stuff? If you are just looking to get a piece of ass, get one. If not, stop looking for love with very girl and take time to enjoy stuff going on around you. Besides, there is nothing flakier or more fickle than a teenage girl.[/QUOTE]

You hit the nail on the head for the most part
its not that I dont heed advice its just hard to do so. I dont like being alone but I am 4/5 of the time. I have nothing to occupy my time besides my car, and I am someone who loves to give attention and all that shit. Honestly a peice of ass would be just the thing I need now but I cant even get that. No ones really attracted to me. I knwo im trying to rush things, but im not looking really for love, I just want the compainionship of someone whos not gonna treat me like shit. I have had one relationship, and kissed one girl. I have no experience with like flirting, going in for a kiss, any of that stuff. I am jsut so aqward with peopel and im shy and i dont know what to do. Its hard for me because like instead of letting stuff get it me, i try not to but when i get the same thigns over and over again it gets to me. Idk anymore. I wanna enjoy my highschool years but I cant seem to. Im rarely happy, and the only times i enjoy myself is out driving my car. Its hard to be single and have friends that alll have girls, or get with girls all the time, im just like always sitting there and they are having fun, and doing shit. Im like the only virgin out of my friends. Everytime we are out with girls they end up talking to them, focusing on them. They dont want a short, unexperienced kid.

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[hypostang]

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Only advice I have for you is don\'t try so hard ... just do what you enjoy doing and the rest will fall into place

 

[Jon90LSC]

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[quote name=\'hypostang\']Only advice I have for you is don\'t try so hard ... just do what you enjoy doing and the rest will fall into place[/QUOTE]:werd:

You need some cougar lovin\', Mason. That, and get a dog. Both of those should fix your (percieved) shortcomings. True story.

 

[Jon90LSC]

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[quote name=\'daboss351\'] I am just so ackward with people and im shy and i dont know what to do. [/QUOTE]I\'m still that way, and I\'m 34. It might sound strange, but there is probably a girl looking for just that. Now you have to find her. No small feat.

I spent my high school days staying stoned and painting cars, somewhat in that order. I didn\'t really have a girlfriend much, and pretty much stayed in the garage all the time. I fell hard for the first girl I *thought* really cared for me, and it hurt for a long time when that went to shit.

 

[Potato]

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[quote name=\'daboss351\']You hit the nail on the head for the most part
its not that I dont heed advice its just hard to do so. I dont like being alone but I am 4/5 of the time. I have nothing to occupy my time besides my car, and I am someone who loves to give attention and all that shit. Honestly a peice of ass would be just the thing I need now but I cant even get that. No ones really attracted to me. I knwo im trying to rush things, but im not looking really for love, I just want the compainionship of someone whos not gonna treat me like shit. I have had one relationship, and kissed one girl. I have no experience with like flirting, going in for a kiss, any of that stuff. I am jsut so aqward with peopel and im shy and i dont know what to do. Its hard for me because like instead of letting stuff get it me, i try not to but when i get the same thigns over and over again it gets to me. Idk anymore. I wanna enjoy my highschool years but I cant seem to. Im rarely happy, and the only times i enjoy myself is out driving my car. Its hard to be single and have friends that alll have girls, or get with girls all the time, im just like always sitting there and they are having fun, and doing shit. Im like the only virgin out of my friends. Everytime we are out with girls they end up talking to them, focusing on them. They dont want a short, unexperienced kid.[/QUOTE]


Everything you just said plays to your advantage believe it or not. I\'m not going to give you this advice directly... I\'m going to make you work for it and think just a little. What you take away from this is up to you. Remember when you were really young and you liked a girl? What did you do? Were you nice to her or did you pick on her? I\'m not saying to be a complete asshole but have fun with things and see where that takes you.

What\'s more attractive to you; a girl who will let you walk all over them because they are too damn nice or a girl who will give you all kinds of hell while letting you know she\'s just playing around?

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[Geordi]

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So I\'m not the only one Jon? I\'m 31, and in the same boat. Add to that, I started college at 16, and you have a recipe for not fitting in much. Mason... Don\'t stress about it. I actually am FINALLY starting to see my fair share of returned looks. Kissing? I haven\'t got any real experience either. It will happen eventually. Not all of us can be Tommy. :fawk:

 

[imported_Tubby]

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You just need to start bringing roofies with you to parties.

 

[Jon90LSC]

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[quote name=\'Geordi\']So I\'m not the only one Jon? I\'m 31, and in the same boat. Add to that, I started college at 16, and you have a recipe for not fitting in much. Mason... Don\'t stress about it. I actually am FINALLY starting to see my fair share of returned looks. Kissing? I haven\'t got any real experience either. It will happen eventually. Not all of us can be Tommy. :fawk:[/QUOTE]Yeah, it turns out chicks don\'t dig fat, bald buys at 20. They seem to later, though.

[quote name=\'Tubby\']You just need to start bringing roofies with you to parties.[/QUOTE]That, or ether and a rag.

 

[Geordi]

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[quote name=\'Jon90LSC\']Yeah, it turns out chicks don\'t dig fat, bald buys at 20. They seem to later, though.

That, or ether and a rag.[/QUOTE]

:chin: Not bald, but I\'ve got a few extra pounds I\'ve been trying to get rid of... Maybe the attractiveness comes with some age tho. I can live with that.